The Me You Haven’t Met Yet
There are people who’ve known me most of my life. Some know the girl who was always there for everyone else. Some know the version of me who tried to keep it all together. But not everyone has met the woman I’ve become, the one who’s learning how to give without emptying herself.
In the last few years, I’ve asked different questions. About energy. About worth. About why some connections fill you up and others leave you running on fumes. That curiosity led me to the Enneagram and not as a label, but as a language. A way to understand my patterns, my people, and most importantly, myself.
As an Enneagram 2, I saw myself clearly: the helper, the giver, the one who deeply wants to be loved. But it also revealed the ways I abandon myself while trying to be everything to everyone else.
Knowing all this information about myself has changed how I show up in motherhood, marriage, friendship and even the kitchen. I’m learning to offer connection from overflow, not obligation. And that shift has been quietly, radically healing.
So I’m hosting an Enneagram class—not because I have all the answers, but because I want to hold a space for women like us to remember who we are beneath the busy. It’s warm, casual, welcoming. No pressure, no performance. Just a space to exhale and explore.
If you’ve been feeling the nudge to reconnect with yourself, or with me, I’d love to have you there.
